Nearly All the Men in Lagos Are Mad by Damilare Kuku

Publication Date: 2021
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Book Review

Introduction

Nearly All the Men in Lagos Are Mad by Damilare Kuku – What a title! I was immediately drawn to this book just by its name—I was curious to find out why nearly all the men in Lagos were “mad”! I habitually never read blurbs before diving into a book, so titles play a significant role in my reading choices. This one intrigued me, and I suspected it would explore relationships and everything that comes with them and the realities of dating in Nigeria.

Summary

This collection of 12 short stories did not disappoint! Each one had me laughing out loud, and I thoroughly enjoyed the ride. The stories revolve around dating, romantic entanglements, and the many relationships we navigate in life. While humorously told, they are deeply rooted in the realities of everyday life—love, family, sex, friendship, betrayal, religion, wealth, and more. The stories capture the complexities of human connections, exposing secrets, lies, and the masks people wear in relationships.

As always, I opted for the Audible version, and the narrators, Anniwaa Buachie and Thabang Makhubela, delivered an outstanding performance. I loved the passion and humour with which they brought the stories to life. There’s something special about African books being narrated by Africans—it adds an authenticity that truly enhances the listening experience. Only an African can read those “ah ah!!” moments with the gusto and intention they require! Kudos to both narrators, especially Anniwaa Buachie, who truly elevated the storytelling.

Reflection and Recommendation

I loved this book so much that I listened to it twice.

I genuinely enjoyed every single story, but if I had to pick favourites, they would be (in no particular order):

• Chuck-Up
• The Anointed Wife
• Lover’s Vendetta
• Catfish
• Beard Gang

I wholeheartedly recommend this book—whether you read or listen to it, you’re in for a treat!

About the Author

Damilare Kuku is a Nigerian writer, actress, and filmmaker. Nearly All the Men in Lagos Are Mad is her best-selling book. I hope to read and review her 2024 novel Only Big Bumbum Matters Tomorrow. Damilare has also worked as a radio presenter, scriptwriter, and director.

If you enjoy Nigerian women’s storytelling, check out our review of [Tomorrow I Become a Woman by Aiwanose Odafen]